Your Breast Health Matters
How many of you go to your GYN and hear them ask, are you doing your breast check? How many of us actually check your breasts? I was one of those patients who lied to their doctors about yes I checked my breast but I did not do breast checks. I haven't been to my GYN for a few years or have the lovely mammograms. Life just got in my way of taking care of me.

2024: A Turning Point
2024 was a stressful year for me but I was trying to work on a new me. I was living in my new home and going through a divorce. The day I found my lump was a normal morning. I was in the shower washing up and felt a lump on my left side near my armpit. I had my boyfriend feel it as well just to make sure I was not hallucinating. Him and I talked and he told me to get it checked just in case it could be something. This was about the middle of February.
It took me a few weeks finally make the appt with my GYN. My appt was in March. The day of my appt, I was nervous and uneasy that it could be cancer or something else. I was very thankful my boyfriend came with me as a second ear but held my hand as well. My Dr. Torrence came in and did her examination and said she felt that it was a swollen gland but let's get it checked to be safe and rule out anything else.
As I waited for them to call to schedule the mammogram not so patiently. It took a few weeks to finally get the call scheduling my appt. As I walk in for my appt to have the mammogram. I was very nervous. I just lost my dad to cancer a few years before this. We did the normal mammogram and had me sit and wait until the doctor reviewed it. The technician comes in the room and tells me we have to do another mammogram that is a little more invasive. So here we go, boobs getting squished again. After the second mammogram the technician came in and I went to have a sonogram of my left boob with the doctor. Of course they have to check both to make sure but are really focused on my left. The doctor told me there is something there and she wants to schedule a biopsy. She says we can get you on that Thursday.
The day of my biopsy, I was very nervous. This is the day of truth, Cancer or just a swollen gland. The biopsy was not fun. They take you back, get the area all cleaned up and tell what the procedure is and what they are going to do. Of course they do numb you in that area but it took a lot of numbing cream for me. It's a syringe with this long needle that they stick in my boob area where the lump is. You hear the clicking noise of them taking out tissue from the lump. They had to do about 6 of them and put a chip in to save the area of where they did the biopsy. Now we wait for the results.



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A Life-Changing Diagnosis
My results came in within a day but I had to wait for my drs appt for them to confirm what I already knew, Cancer. My doctor's appt was the following week and she confirmed everything was true. I have breast cancer that is a Grade 3 (aggressive form) with a tumor size of 2 x 1.4 x 0.2cm which is Stage 2-3 at that time. The type that I have is a HER 2 at the time we did not know if it was positive or negative.
My doctor immediately got me an appt with Dr. Liang a breast surgeon the following week to go over a plan of action. As we are waiting for the doctors, my kids are calling and want to know what's going on. First I started with my little one, Jacqueline, I wanted to tell everyone at once but that didn’t work. She was upset and didn’t understand why or what this all meant to her. Then I spoke to my second oldest, Gabrielle, she was very mad and upset. It is so hard to stay strong and not break down with them but I pulled it off. My oldest kinda already knew because she called me on the day of my appt with the biopsy doctor.

A Life-Changing Meeting
The day of meeting Dr. Liang we did a breast examination so she can feel the tumor and a sonogram as well. After being in the room she told me and my boyfriend to meet her in her office. So we go into her office to listen to what the next steps will be. She said because of where my tumor was, the type of cancer and the size, she wants to do chemo first then surgery. So she gave me another referral to Dr. Riseberg and they will set up all the appts with him. Tears just came pouring out and everything was finally setting in. I have cancer.
As we are walking out to the car to leave and my mind raises if I am too young and my life is starting over again with a new man. I got a call to see Dr. Riseberg the following week to meet with him and get his opinion. Mind you I am driving over an hour for these doctors that were referred to me by my GYN and the biopsy doctor. I did make sure these doctors were the best by referring to my friend who happens to be an ER doctor.
A New Chapter Begins
The day of my visit with Dr. Riseberg went well. Again, we did a breast examination, and then we went over what he wanted to do. So much information was thrown at us (my boyfriend and I). Dr. Riseberg basically said depending on what type of HER2 I have, it would determine the chemo treatments. He is hoping for it to be positive because it is easy to treat.
As we were leaving the office and waiting for the call to get everything rolling, the port would be put in and the results of the type of HER2 I have, praying for positive. I received the call from Dr. Riseberg, I have HER2 negative, also known as Triple Negative. So my treatment plan is 12 weeks of Taxol, Keytruda, and premeds (acid reflux, Benadryl, and steroids). Then I would do AC (red devil) every other week for 4 treatments. We would wait a month, then meet again with my surgeon and possible radiation.
It's been a journey filled with uncertainty, but I continue to stand strong, embracing each step as I move forward.
Becky's Breast Cancer Journey
Becky’s journey began unexpectedly, discovering a lump during a regular shower. After weeks of waiting, testing, and emotional ups and downs, she was diagnosed with Stage 2-3 HER2-negative breast cancer. With strength, the support of her loved ones, and the guidance of a skilled medical team, Becky began a treatment plan involving chemotherapy and surgery. This section honors her courage and determination to fight back—and reminds us all of the importance of early detection.







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